"For my birthday, I want everyone's life to revolve around me and everyone to proclaim their undying fondness for me."

Of course I want Tamie's birthday to be wonderful! Therefore, I do profess to have a LOT of fondness for her! Tamie is one of those people who really did change my life for the better. I love how Tamie is always wanting to learn more, she reaches out for learning like nobody else I know. Tamie is also humble and teachable (which makes learning from life's experiences easier). I miss talking with her about different things we were experiencing. Tamie, I love your smile and your devotion to your family! You are an inspiration to me!

Teresa Peterson

I always remember Juliet and Tamie birthday and they where my first nieces and hold a special place in my heart.

I can remember taking care of them when they lived in Hunter for about 2 weeks. There Dad and Mom with the help of our family where remodeling the basement. Dennis and Janet had 3 fish tanks, and while I was watching Juliet and Tamie they would stick there hand and yes even a diaper in the tank. I can't tell you how many times I had to clean the tank.

Tamie always has had a can do attitude and I so admire that in her. From traveling to Jerusalem and getting to know the places where Jesus walk to having fun with her boys and family. She is such a great mom and thinks of way to let her boys be boys.

Tamie has a special way of touching my heart through her email and her strong spiritual awareness of the gospel and it principal that is so awesome.

I hope she has a wonderful birthday and let her know how much I love her and her special spirit she is.

Janiece Hall

I love Tamie for her selflessness. She is one I look up to in so many ways. She is beautiful, smart, caring, giving and the list can go on and on. One thing I admire about her is her ability to parent. She is the most patient mom I have ever met. She loves her boys and it shows. She is always finding new and creative ways to teach her boys important principles. She never ceases to amaze me.

I can remember growing up with Tamie every summer I came up from California and spent the week with her at her house in Provo. We did everything from going to Seven Peaks, shopping, staying up late and watching movies, going out to lunch, babysitting and just talking about everything under the sun! It was the highlight of my summer. Love you Tamie!! Happy Birthday!

Carrie Valadez

Tamie is one of my favorite people because of her fun and adventurous spirit. I have had so many good times with Tamie I was actually daydreaming about them just the other day. She was a major buddy in Key Club (she's all about service!) in High School where we shared lots of good times (remember Thane, the look-alike Ryan). But also the sleepovers (that annoying bird you guys had!), the volleyball, the drive-ins with fruit jets...all great times. But what can compare to the amazing 5 months of Jersusalem study abroad as roomies? Here, Tamie's spirit shined not only in a spiritual sense but in her free spirit as well. Can we say Turkish bath?! It is simply a blast hanging out with Tamie. She laughs easily, enjoys deep conversation, isn't afraid to speak her mind, yet cares deeply about others' feelings and would never cross anyone. Tamie has shown her ability to take on tough challenges life has thrown her and come out on top. She has made herself and has the power to do and be whatever she wills. Not everyone has that ability. I love Tamie and I welcome her to the wonderful 30's!!

Amanda Christensen

Oh Tamie, this is my ode to you
I have no idea how to write an ode, but such greatness and perfection inspires things such as odes, so I am compelled to write one... even if it doesn't even remotely resemble an actual ode.

Uh, thy hair doth smell of the flowers of June,
and like the sun your laughter make the flowers bloom (eh, they sound close enough)

When the waterfalls croon
I think of you that one time swimming in them at about noon

You were the one with whom I can discuss everything like how to spoon

or what to do when I need to attend commune (mormon style)

With you I could imagine dancing under the moon
You, me our husbands and some charming tune.

...and I don't know anything else that would rhyme into that. But really Tamie, I think of anyone in our Heaton family no one welcomed me as openly and warmly as you did. Your open, frank maner is something I deeply resonate with and appreciate on a couple levels. Thank you so much for being willing to be so honest, sincere, kind, and frank with me. It makes me immensly comfortable with you and makes me feel like I can trust you.

Sarah Heaton

Hear ye, hear ye! I now proclaim my admiration, adoration, and adulation for Tamie! I'm so glad to have crossed paths with her here in West Jordan. I want to be like Tamie. She exudes a zeal and excitement for life that is contagious. Tamie was the first person to say hello to me when we moved in to the ward. I was so glad, because I knew right away that I had found a real friend. Later I learned I had been right: Tamie accepted me and my family regardless of how clean my house was, how rowdy my kids were, or how behind I was on everything. Tamie is not a surface-level friend—in her I have found someone who will open up and talk about real issues; her probing, incisive intelligence is evident when she shares her thoughts.

Natalie Conforto

I think that the thing that I love most about Tamie is her ability to show love. I have watched her with the boys and it is so obvious that they know that their mother loves them. She spends time with each one of them and shows them what is unique about themselves. She also shows such a deep love for you (Ryan). I just love that even after 8 years (?) of marraige, you guys are still as much in love as ever and show it constantly. I have learned a lot from Tamie, but I think the thing that I have learned the most is the importance of family, and to show that love each and every day.

Jenna Heaton

For me, Tamie has always epitomized devotion. Tamie is has always shown great devotion to her family, husband, church, friends, and hobbies. To cite a few examples, I have often seen her brainstorming ideas of fun things to do with her kids so her kids could have many different experiences by trying many different things. Most recently, she has been greatly involved in her kids schooling by making sure they are learning and growing. She has also shown great devotion to all her callings in church by spending a lot of her time preparing lessons, singing time materials, and personal scripture study. In short, when Tamie commits to something, she gives all of herself and holds nothing back.

Matt Heaton

You have the most beautiful smile, your eyes light up and shine so bright. When I hear you bare your testimony I can feel the love you have for the Savior. You are also a great mother to your boys and a loving wife to Ryan. May your birthday be as bright as your smile!

Jina Vigoren

I love Tamie because she is a true friend. Once, when Paul was gone for the week and she knew I was stressed out , she spontaneously came over and read the kids their bedtime stories. It was such a kind and thoughtful act. It is just one of many kind acts of service that I've seen Tamie do. Tamie has a gift for breaking down barriers for people to help them be at ease and able to express themselves freely. She just makes you feel comfortable being who you are and loves you as if your faults were invisible. I think it is a rare and wonderful person who can do these things. I know I am not there yet. Tamie has a way of energizing you and making you excited about all the things there are to do in life. She brings meaning and purpose to our everyday interactions with each other. I've really enjoyed playing games with Tamie and Ryan, just discussing life in general. I like how she has opinions and is willing to express them. I've have learned so much by listening to her perspectives. She truly is a wise friend! She is uplifting and inspiring and at the same time easy to be around. Tamie radiates love for others and is a great example to me. I am so glad she is in my life! She is a rare treasure and I know others can feel her positive energy and want to be around her! Thank you for opening your life and your heart to me Tamie!

Mary Ann Tiemann

Tamie, We love you so much. It was a great day when you and I were paired for visiting teaching. If nothing else, a great friendship came from that!! We love "game night" that you started. Even though you haved moved on and are no longer at our game nights, we think of you every week when we get together. The friendship, support from one another and the release from stress is a great legacy that you have left us, with game night friends. Thank you! The fun times that had, have and will have in the future!! We so look forward to many happy times with you. We love that after a long time with out any contact, we get together and it seems like it was only yesterday. Here's to a friendship that will last!!

Mike and Annie Woodward

One of the things that makes me love and adore Tamie is her contagious laugh. She laughs like a carefree kid and you can't help but be happy too. Another thing I love about Tamie is how much she cares about her family and others around her. I remember one time she asked Matt and I if there was anything that we were in need of that her family could pray about. That concern and love touched me. Happy Birthday Tamie, from another adoring fan!

Cami Heaton

Okay this is my praise for Tamie. I wanted to share a couple things. I always loved having sleep overs growing up. One time I had to go pee and tamie told me that there were lasers that were set for the alarm and we couldn't just walk out to the bathroom from our bedroom. So we army crawled on the floor to get to the bathroom. What a fun memory for me! Another one that I just love is this: When Tamie got home from Jerusalem, she brought back this mud. Cyndi and I came over and she totally and willingly shared this precious sea mud she'd gotten over there. We donned our bathing suits and covered ourselves in this dead sea mud. (then I think we went into the hot tub). I was always amazed how willing she was to share that with us. I would have probably kept it on my shelf and never used it. Thanks Tamie for all the very fun times growing up (and even now... I just love your sense of humor, it brightens my day)

Amber Kelly

T is for Tough
A is for Animated
M is for Mom
I is for Intelligent
E is for Example

Cheesy I know. These words only describe a small portion of who you are to me.

What an amazing woman. I feel privileged that you are my sister. You are such a wonderful example to me. I often think that you should have been the oldest. I watch you in awe of your strength, faithfulness, steadfastness, exactness, knowledge, creativity and ideas. I wish we could talk more often about life, people and our kids. You inspire me to do better. You also have a great way of making me feel good about myself.

You are fun to be with. A very fun person. I watched you help and play with your kids. I loved playing games and listening to your contagious laugh. I didn't want that night to end. Your laugh is so great. You find humor in so much of life. I found myself trying to think of more funny stories to share just so I could hear you laugh. I also found myself a little jealous of our children. It would be so fun to just have you to myself for awhile. Sitting by the pool at the camelback Inn with our Pina Colada's. Feeding the ducks, putting Katie in the laundry shut, playing dress-up and store in our attic closet. Many memories still linger, but too many have faded. I often wish I could go back and do it again knowing what I know now. I regret not spending more time with you as a teenager and a child. I was so selfish. I feel like I'm just starting to see all the wonderful things about you that I missed and could have greatly benefited from. I hope the future holds many moments of sharing and being together. You give me strength.

Love your Sister forever,

Juliet Roxburgh

I think that Tamie is the greatest! She is such a great mom, wife, neighbor and friend. She is easy to talk to and doesn't judge people. She is so patient and loving to her family, they are so lucky to have her. She is a great inspiration to me! Tamie (and Ryan) opened their home to us weekly for game nights, which were so fun; and they allowed us to stay with them in Hawaii. Without that invitation, we would have never gone, and it was the best vacation we have ever had. You were some of the first friends we made in the neighborhood when we moved in. We miss you guys! Happy birthday Tamie, we love you!

Emily Smith

Tamie is a very special lady. Growing up she was very particular about her dress, style, and fashion. Everything had to be perfect; hair, clothes, the ribbons and bows, everything. Whenever she had braids put in her hair they had to be just perfect or the project would have to begin all over again. The bows on her dresses had to be the tightest they could get and be just right or the outfit was just not quite good enough to be worn that day. She was always making sure that things were the way they should be and in proper order so that she could be looking and feeling her best. This is something that still is important to Tamie but not in the same way. Tamie is more conscious of her children and how they are being raised. She makes sure they are receiving the proper nourishment, physically, mentally, and spiritually, so they can perform their best.

Her children keep her very busy and she enjoys every minute of it. Being a mother has brought such a wonderful spirit to her life and she takes that role wonderfully. She does not shy away from an adventure and loves to involve her kids in the fun things she is doing. Always teaching them to have fun and the proper way to live, you will always find her experimenting with new things. She stretches and grows daily to fit in with the busy speed of life and the adventurous spirits of her four young boys.

One fun memory of Tamie is the day she was married. That morning she was singing the primary song “I love to see the Temple”. It was so neat to see how focused she was on this important step in her life and that she felt the spirit of the Temple on such an important day in her life. Her dedication to always choose the right and to live her life in the proper manner has always inspired me. I look up to her in so many ways and am proud to call her my daughter. I love her dearly and wish her the happiest on her 30th.

Dennis Hall

I was just thinking of a funny memory that I have with Tamie at our time at BYU Jerusalem. First of all, one must know that Tamie loves to sing hymns and we used to sing them together all the time. She was so patient to put up with my voice trying to find the right tune and all that fun stuff! So we used to like to sit at the back of the bus on trips and sing to our hearts' content. Once we were on our way back to the center and apparently passing through a rough area when a rock was thrown through out bus door. It shook everyone up pretty good, but because we were at the back of the bus and were singing, we didn't even know about the incident. I think someone even had to get on the bus speaker and tell us to stop singing and inform all of us of what just happend. If I remember right, some people thought we were being rude or disrespectful or something because we kept right on singing! Well, that was a fun memory - especially since no one was hurt and we were able to go on our merry way, but it was just one of many that stand out in my mind. Tamie has many wonderful qualities that I came to appreciate about her when I spent the semester in Jerusalem with her. As we get older (some would scoff at 30) we sometimes think of all those people who have had impacts for good on our lives and Tamie was one of those people in my life. I hope 30 tops them all!!!

Chantal Howell

Hear ye! Hear ye!

It shall be proclaimed throughout all the kingdom:

Hal Heaton doth proclaim his undying fondness for Tamie Heaton.

This proclamation doth declare his gratitude for Tamie’s care and diligence in the raising of grandchildren who serve as prey for the “Grandpa Monster.”

Hal Heaton

I love how important it is to you to have the family together and to make everyone feel welcome and included. My last trip to UT (this past January) it was so fun to be with you (and your killer banana/coconut pancakes) and just hang out. It's always so effortless to sit in your family room and just talk. When I'm with you, I find it easy to open up about how my thoughts and feelings about life, being a mom and raising my kids. You always have great ideas to help me be a better mother. Like for example, helping me realize that I don't give myself enough credit and helping me to see what I can do for my kids personally as opposed to out-sourcing (ie: teaching them piano myself). One of your talents is "saying it like it is" without offending, as I always know there is a huge heart behind all you take the time to say.

I love you Tamie! Happy 30th!

Marcy McLendon

I am so glad you came into my life, Tamie. I think we would both agree that our friendship has been unique. You have definitely been there for me in ways and at times that no one else could. We have had wonderful conversations about life. You encouraged me to pursue Kindermusik which was the perfect thing at the perfect time. You have spoken for my son to me in a way that I will remember and cherish for eternity.

You are a very dear friend and I believe our spirits mingle even though we are seldom together physically. You mean a lot to me and my birthday wish for you is one of new health like you've never experienced before. Energy to continue as the wonderful, inspiring mother that you are. All the refreshing, rejuvenating vacations that mean so much to you. A beautiful home where you can let your spirit shine in all it's splendor. And that you will feel the undying fondness that your loved ones have for you forever and ever.

Suzanne Robbins

Happy birthday, Tamie! I am so glad that you were born. I am so grateful that you moved here! I’m glad to know you.

I just had this great thought come into my head the other day... I thought since your birthday was coming up I’d write you a letter of my undying fondness of you. These are the things I have always wanted to say, but never had the right setting to say them.

When you first came into the ward, I remember you and Tanner in the primary room. I was so anxious to know you. I told Josef, “Hey Joey, a new friend.” Little did I know you would become such a great friend! You are so easy and enjoyable to talk to.

I remember only days after your tonsil operation I went to the pool and I saw you lounging, soaking in the sun. I could tell you were miserable, but I sat by you anyway. As you held your ice-pack up to your jaw, you asked me how work was going – always interested in other people! I humored you and answered the question, but all I could think was, “Tamie is not smiling!” I really missed your smile that day. Because you were feeling bad and didn’t smile, I felt down the whole morning. Then I realized then how infectious your smile is. I realized how much you smile. Your smile is one of your truly unique qualities! It lightens up a room (or park).

You also have an open mind. You are accepting of others despite their faults. You find the best in people around you. You are childlike in your humility and “teachability”. You love to ask questions.

You love your children and dote over them. I can see your love for them reflected in their shining, smiling faces. (Especially Tanner’s, “My Mom misses me and I need to go home now, will you make my family a treat?”) And you take your little ones in your arms often. I haven’t found that quality in many women. Truly a characteristic that is inherently part of your soul! As if you were taught from on high, and this motherly love wisps behind you for other women to breathe in.

You also dote over Ryan and you are ever talking about how wonderful he is. He must be a proud man to have such a loving wife. What a great example you are to all of us.

But your greatest attribute is your love for the Savior and gratitude for His atonement. In every conversation you are sure to casually say something of Him and His great love for us. These “testimonies” stay with me the whole day and make me think about Him. I used to wonder how to apply D&C 88:120: “that your incomings may be in the name of the Lord; that your outcomings may be in the name of the Lord; that all your salutations may be in the name of the Lord…” You’ve shown me how to apply this scripture!

Janna Barnes

First impression of Tamie was what a darling baby she was and reminded me of her Mother when she was that age. Tamie always had the ability to get her point across quietly, I remember the time when she was unhappy with Juliet and I heard nothing from Tamie but Juliet was really making a fuss in the car, when I inquired what the problem was Juliet said she is telling me to shut up, I said I don't hear Tamie saying anything, Juliet said she is doing this with the demonstration of closing her fingers together and then pointing her thumb up.

I have always admired the thoughts and ability that Tamie has of expressing in word as well as writing and making you feel the spirit as she bore testimony to the truths that she knew. How she set her life on a course to become more spiritually aware and more knowledgeable concerning Gods plan for us while we are in our porbationary state.

What a beautiful women she is on the inside as well as on the outside.

Happy great big 30th.

Sharon Bateman

On her 30th Birthday, 30 Reasons why I think Tamie is so special (in no particular order)

1. She unconditionally loves Ryan (who, of course, deserves it).
2.She respects the priesthood that Ryan holds and together they bless their family with that priesthood.
3.She is always supportive of Ryan’s career decisions.
4.She has a great laugh that makes everyone around her happy.
5.She is always willing to share her family
6.She understands why seams on socks bother Ty.
7.She likes my chicken noodle soup.
8.She loves to read.
9.She gave Tanner brown eyes.
10.She is always willing to read a story to her children.
11.She studies the Book of Mormon with Ty.
12.She magnifies her church callings.
13.She has tolerated me for almost half her life.
14.Jordan’s giggles make her happy.
15.She gave us Tyran.
16.She gave us Tanner.
17.She gave us Jordan.
18.She gave us Hyrum.
19.She sincerely cares about neighbors and friends.
20.She is a loyal and loving sister.
21.She loves the beach.
22.She loves other people’s children.
23.She shares her testimony by her words and her actions.
24.She is beautiful inside and out.
25.She is always willing to build a train track.
26.She is nonjudgmental of other’s actions.
27.She always takes time to enjoy God’s creations.
28.Her cuddles are always available.
29.She loves to go visiting teaching.
30.She bases big decisions on inspiration from our Heavenly Father.

Happy Birthday, Tamie!!

Karynn Heaton

I, Sarah Brickey Young, hereby proclaim YOU, Tamie Heaton to be a great person, and a gracious friend for whom I have an undying fondness!

Were it in my power, I would spread your sweet, friendly smile throughout the world, to "cheer and bless and brighten" people's lives the world over! From the moment I saw the Heaton Family, struggling (as most of us do) to get through a Sacrament Meeting, I wanted to meet them. I had no particular premonition, just the desire to get to know this family and a hope that they were not simply visiting. :-) It has been my privilege to be one of Tamie's new friends, a rather lame one at times, but well-meaning anyway! I am SO glad you are here in our ward, and that you are my friend!!

I do love you, Tamie! Thank you for being such an honest, good person. Thank you for your efforts in getting things organized and involving people in fun activities; you are THE Woman!! I know that this ward and this neighborhood has been greatly improved and changed in happy ways simply by your being here! You have made such a difference! Do you realize the power and influence for good that you have had?! Thank you, thank you!! You are a w e s o m e !!

H A P P Y , H A P P Y B I R T H D A Y , T A M I E DEAR!

Sarah Young

I can hear your request, "that everyone's life revolves around me..." coming from you and love the smile that I know accompanied it! Can I just revolve my life around you for just a bit and tell you how many times I think of you and your family as I am figuring out this motherhood thing? I refer back to conversations we've had, books you recommended, and activities you introduced us to constantly. Our time together in the neighborhood was really quite brief, just over two years. Looking back, I wish I would have known you better in High School because if I didn't drive you totally nuts, I think we would have been kindred spirits, even clear back then! The main thing that you taught me most, so far, is how to serve. You taught me that you can't just sit around and offer to help "if you need anything", you just need to get in there and do it. Don't wait, do. I think I've always taken a fairly casual approach to service until that first conversation about it. I've never looked at it the same way. If I really want to help, I try not to wait for the opportunity, but just go make it. You were always so awesome that way. You were always watching my kids, inviting us (and everyone else) over for dinner, planning block parties, and you planned 2 whole weeks of meals for me after I had Jane. I will NEVER forget that one. That was life saving and WAY beyond what a normal good friend would do. You are a little bit better than normal, you proved that early on. I can't thank you enough for being such a wonderful friend! When we get back to Utah, can we get together and see if our boys remember each other? :) Have a FANTASTIC birthday and know that we love you, even over here in Bangkok!

Mindy Hillman (and fam)

Here are my Tamie top-5

1. When we were in town a few times ago Tamie was so nice to invite us over to her game night. Sarah and I had so much fun! We even started our own set of italian soda syrups and have hosted several parties with them.
2. Tamie is a very good listener. I've always feel safe talking to her about anything, because I know she would treat it with the utmost respect. She is incredibly non-judgemental. I love that about her.
3. Tamie has always been so nice to let me play with her boys. I've always felt welcome to become involved in their lives. Even when Ty was little she let me take him to feed the duckies and go to the animal museaum. It's one of my fondest memories from college.
4. Tamie is very good at being consistently herself. It takes a lot of confidence and self-awareness to be so comfortable and consistent. You can always count on her to treat everyone the same. There is a lot of genuine in Tamie.
5. Tamie is very curious and extroverted. She is always following up on things that she remembered from previous conversations. It makes a person feel special to know that someone is listening and remembering the things you say. On top of this, she is interested in others lives, hopes, and ambitions. She makes everyone around her feel special.

Chris Heaton

On your 30th Birthday, I do offer my undying fondness and love for you! I have many memories that have caused me to love you . . .they began
from the time you were very little. I've chosen to write about one of those characteristics that has endeared me to you and caused this undying fondness that Ryan has asked us to focus on . . .

Tamie, as a little child you had the ability to make me feel that you genuinely loved to be around me, that I was in some way special to you, and that my opinion mattered to you. That is a special gift. You have honed that gift and continue to make me feel that very same way, even as now we talk on the phone or through email.

You make me feel special just talking to you, you ask my opinion on important questions that you have concerning your children and again, as you did as a child, make me feel as though my opinions really matter to you.

It's a gift to be able to make others feel important and valued. You have always had that gift and continue to use it as an adult.

Have a wonderful day today. Know how much you are loved and valued . . . especially by your Aunt Linda . . .give your children loves and hugs knowing that you are absolutely doing a remarkable job at being a Mother to them . . .they are blessed to have you as their Mom.

My love to you today and always Tamie . . .

Linda Duncombe

To My Adorable Tamie,

From the very first moment you arrived, you were curious about the world. Your eyes were wide open as you looked around to see where you were. You latched onto my breast with such enthusiasm... and from there it has been a life of curiosity, enthusiasm and wide eyed wonder as the world unfolds each new day.

From the time you were very small, you had a very distinct idea about how you wanted to be approached and how you chose to approach the world. You knew how you wanted your hair fixed, bows tied, dolls arranged, papers and projects done ... and all of it was great. It was you.

I've always laughed as I've thought about how you wanted your life to be fun. "I want a job that I love" you would say. At first you insisted that would be working at the Cabbage Patch Doll factory. It didn't take long though for you to realize it would be far better to be the owner of the factory, rather than just a worker. When asked what you wanted to be when you grew up...at the tender age of 4, the answer was clear and firm. "I want to own a Cabbage Patch Doll Factory". Sooooooo cute (By the way...I don't think the job you do is far from what you set your expectations for!)

You were always very loyal to your friends. When you were little, it was BIG KATIE, from across the street. Then in Sandy it was Julie that you loved to "meet at the bear cave". From there we saw many more friends, but usually you kept a closeness to only one or two particular girls ... showing that you knew how to bond and be loyal, constant and reliable. In time, and with circumstance and maturity....you came into your own as a leader among friends. By middle school, you were the one that got the calls asking "what are we going to do this weekend?" because everyone counted on your abilities to organize and arrange the gatherings. Why? Because you were so good at it, because they were always fun and because your friends grew to count on you for that strength and talent.

When you were little, you were by far the biggest giggler in the family. When you laughted, it was never luke warm. It was full out, as you gasped for breath, held your stomach, became speechless...and completely contagious! When you started laughing, usually it began the chorus of laughter for us all.

I remember some very interesting conversations with you. At one time you determined to become a marine biologist, because you loved water so much. But...being the practical realist you are, you decided you didn't want to waste time trying to save the planet and water life because it was all going to get blown up anyway in the last days.

I remember how fun and exciting it was helping you prepare to give your speach in class for student body officer elections. You we not afraid to make fun of yourself and give everyone a good laugh at your own expense. (Remember the whole gig with the short girl getting ready for school?)

Then came high school ... and the day you came home and tattled because some boy kept pulling your hair. You called him a chauvonist pig .... without even knowing what it really meant. The most hilarious thing about that is that Ryan is about the polar opposite of what you accused, and smart enough ta boot to not let your initial assessment discourage him.

It was here you began to really show your true character. In the wake of feeling friendless, you became a friend ... and by doing so, attracted just the right kind of friends. You were faithful and true to your values and your beliefs began to grow with purity and steadfastness, based in the foundation of realism, curiosity and scrutiny that any idea was screened through. You never just took things at face value. You always wanted to know the source, the evidence and the information that supported the idea or belief presented. Your teachers referred to you as a bulldog...because of your determination to understand...not letting them move beyond a concept that you didn't fully understand until it made sense and was completely comprehended. No pride, no guile ... just driven by the simple desire to understand and learn truth. You were a sifter .... and still you sift through your information, thoughtfully processing, analyzing and making determinations about what is truth and what is not. Very admirable. I recall once that you questioned your Sunday School teacher...at the price of great confrontation and discomfort; but no one else dared, and when all was said and done, you were admired and respected for your courage.

I also remember Kelly Nelson, our painter. He loved to talk and rattled off all sorts of "facts" and opinions ... all of which you would question. "What is your source?" you would ask. "How do you know that?" or "Don't you think that's just someone's opinion?" were some of your responses to his chatter. He was duely impressed by your young inquiries and often made effort to back himself up if he knew you would be here to receive his information.

You have approached wivery and motherhood with the same sort of wide eyed curiosity and enthusiasm that accompanied you into this world. Your wise choice to marry Ryan was the springboard to great things. The two of you began your family ...going after it with wide eyed faith...in spite of expressed "observations" or lack of support from others. Even the difficulties did not thwart your purpose to produce what is now the little team of boys that is certainly the evny of any grandparent!

Tamie....your compassion, warmth, creativity, faithfulness, devotion, intelligence, strength, desires to excel, learn and grow...are all becons of inspiration; not only to me, but to all those around you. I have felt the influence of your vitality, courage, faith and compassion most particularly these past few years. It becomes stronger, wiser and more full with each day you live. You are absolutely one of the great souls of this world ... with priorities in order and a life exemplerary of an elite woman of God. I am so blessed to be your Mother and I now walk in your shadow, as you did in mine so many years ago.

I love you so much. I hope you have a beautiful day filled with great expressions of love, true friendship and happiness. You have earned them all...

Janet Hall

Tamie touches our very inner souls as if to say, "Hey, I like you." We have felt close to Tamie in many ways including drives to and from the airport, odd discussions late at night, and indecent revelations from our secret lives. A phone call here and there (mostly from here) to assure our undying love for Tamie. Memories of cheap dates, so cheap that there was actually no date, but only the price of gas fumes and grocery store ice cream. Memories of stopping the car to feed Tyran on our whirlwind church tour. Such love and devotion of a mother is to be commended. We commend you Tamie for your great abilities as a mother and friend in all things. Thank you, we salute you.

We love you Tamie! We love your laugh, it's contagious. We'd love you more if your name was spelled right. :) We want to wish you a Happy Birthday!

Emily and Rick Diamond

I LOVE Tamie Heaton!

Everytime I see her, I think how strikingly beautiful she is, and I often see her in the AM hours while we exercise--sweaty, no makeup, hasty hair--you get the picture. But, of course, that's not why I like her so much.

In our many long walks (social exercise, emphasis on the former) we have delved deep in the waters of philosophy, theology, child care, female hormones, home management, current events, health, personal history. Tamie is insightful and inspiring on every topic. She grounds me when I feel out of balance, she gives me hope when I feel down, she helps me see and be my best self.

I love that Tamie loves nature. I love it that she needs trees, grass, and water in daily life. I love seeing her patient and loving way with her children. I love it that she can take time to sit in the park with the kids and the neighbors. I love how competitive she gets during game night. I love seeing how at peace she is with her life and situation, even through difficulty. I love Tamie's way of making sense of things with just the right words. I love how she can speak volumns with her eyes and her smile when words just won't do. I love how much she loves her husband and has only good things to say about him. (As far as I know, Ryan is absolutely perfect in every way.) I love it that she has gone through difficult trials and is willing to share them openly, along with the knowledge and growth she gained as a result. I love that Tamie is totally committed to her faith in Jesus Christ. I love how Tamie teaches me to accept myself, stop with the guilt, take care of myself along with the others I care for, repent, and move upward and onward. I love her selflessness, her unconditional love, her vivacity, her laugh. I love how she is beautiful, but so natural and unassuming about it that she's not intimidating. I love the support I feel from her in any decision or difficulty I face. I love it that I can call Tamie my friend and neighbor. May it always be so.

I LOVE Tamie Heaton!

Mary Cole

As your little sister, I feel that above everyone else (next to Ryan), I should be the best person to confess my proclamation of undying fondness for you... but I also realize that every person in your life probably feels the same way. That you have been a significant influence.

I have so many memories of you growing up, because every little sister wants to be like her big sister (without admitting it at the time=). I have put you up as a symbol of protection and love that you always were for me. I remember getting lost at Provo High on my first day of school and being mortified that I was lost, you saw me, stopped what you were doing, and then walked me to class. I remember through college, your acceptance of those I dated, but careful opinions or observations to help guide me to eventually find Tucker. You have shared each of your children with me, especially when Tyran was a newborn; I loved coming to spend time with him and holding Tanner in the quiet of your hospital delivery room by myself, gave me much needed healing from my miscarriage.

I admire everything about you and I can't believe sometimes that you manage to critique yourself. You are such a good friend; you study and work hard to develop yourself and your children in the process. You are one of the most selfless people I know. It is hard sometimes to tell you and Ryan and problem we have, because I know you will automatically go to work finding some way to fix things for us... always going way beyond what anyone else would be willing or even consider doing.

We love you, Happy Birthday!

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Posted August 29, 2008 8:27 AM by  Kristine the Killer Rabbit

Have a very wonderful birthday, Tamie!

Love from the Alvarez clan: Kristine, Alex, Alan and Benjamin ;-)

(PS: Don't forget to check your spelling when trying to post a nice comment for someone!)

Posted August 29, 2008 8:30 AM by  Kristine the Killer Rabbit

The highlight of our August trip to Utah? Game night at Tamie’s. The warmth and friendship of family felt deeply, if too briefly. For a moment we were kids again…the fears and jeers we sometimes feel as adults—forgotten. It felt nice to be in a place so kind, so loving as brothers, sisters—friends, even—laughing and playing. I didn’t want to leave that night. It was one of those magical moments you never want to end. But out of politeness for our hostess who’d already stayed up way past bedtime to accommodate us “out-of-towners,” we left—reluctantly—the sting of time and distance made more evident by our closeness that night.

Tamie, I love you. I miss you. Thank you for welcoming me (and my family) into your heart and into your home. You have been a great source of support and strength for us as we’ve embarked on this adventure to Washington. Even though our visits are infrequent, your capacity for love makes it seem like we’re living right next door. I’m sorry for stealing your sister away from you. I know she longs to be near you, and I feel a sharp pang of sadness whenever I have to pull my kids away from yours at the end of our trips. It is a true testament to the love we feel for and from you and your family that we can go a year without seeing each other—yet pick up right where we left off.

We wish we could be there with you tonight as you celebrate. In our absence, have an extra piece of cake and an extra scoop of ice cream and know that there’s a family up here thinking of you tonight. May all your birthday wishes come true!

Happy 30th, Tamie!

Love, your brother—
Rob

Posted August 29, 2008 8:42 PM by  RoxburghFour

tam, Happy birthday! Sheesh, no wonder Ryan is your Edward. That guy has a way with words! I love the part where he says, "demand recognition", it just sounds so passionate. Anyway, we love you guys. Thanks again for the very fun game night. That was a blast.

Posted August 30, 2008 7:04 AM by  Kelly Fam

Man, I'm jealous I didn't get invited to declare my undying devotion to you, Tamie. Believe it or not, I did think about you several times on your b-day but w/new baby, didn't ever get a chance to email you.

I have to agree with all the things that have been expressed already. Your love of learning and improving yourself, thirst for gospel knowledge, infectious laugh, and ability to have fun, are all unique attributes to you.

I have so many funny memories of the fun times we had together in high school. Of course, my single-most favorite memory, which never fails to make me laugh, is the time we soaked Mr. Eady with his own garbage can. You gotta admit, it doesn't get any better than that.

Posted September 6, 2008 4:52 PM by  Emily

I took a break from blogging at the wrong time. Now that I am catching up I realize what an opportunity I missed to tell you Happy Birthday and I love you too. There are a select few people who only bring back happy, fulfilled moments from high school times and you and Ryan are both in that group. Thank you for your example, friendship, and testimony. I love you.

Posted October 20, 2008 11:39 PM by  Allison

That is such a great pictures of your family, and especially YOU!

It is always wonderful to hear (or read) somebody's testimony as it strengthens other's testimonies. I will tell you though, that people that know you or come in contact with you will always know that you have a strong testimony of the Gospel. It is in your eyes, your face, your whole body and in your countenance! You're a great example of a Latter Day Saint!

Posted August 29, 2008 12:15 PM by  Aub and John